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Thanksgiving Party Must-Haves

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Hi everyone, it’s Michael Gortenburg.

As the leaves turn and the air cools, Thanksgiving becomes the perfect time to slow down and connect with family, friends, and community. I’ve always believed the best gatherings aren’t about perfection, but about creating warm memories. Over the years, I’ve picked up a few hosting essentials that make Thanksgiving both enjoyable and stress-free, whether you’re throwing a big dinner or a small get-together.

Create a Warm, Inviting Atmosphere

A Thanksgiving party starts with the right setting. I like to focus on simple, cozy touches—autumn colors, candles, and natural décor like pumpkins or pinecones. Layering in soft lighting and background music helps everyone feel at home. If you have the space, open up your patio or balcony for after-dinner relaxation. Kansas City’s fall evenings can be crisp but beautiful, and a fire pit or heater can make outdoor moments memorable.

Plan a Menu Everyone Will Love

The Thanksgiving table is where the magic happens. Classic dishes like roasted turkey, mashed potatoes, and stuffing are always favorites, but I enjoy experimenting with a new side dish or dessert each year. The key is balance—some homemade staples mixed with easy-to-prep items will save time and stress. For dessert, pumpkin pie is timeless, but pecan pie or apple crisp always make great additions.

If you’re hosting a large group, I recommend organizing a potluck-style meal. Guests love contributing a signature dish, and it makes everyone feel part of the celebration.

Thoughtful Touches Go a Long Way

Small details make gatherings memorable. Handwritten place cards, a few personalized decorations, or thank-you notes for guests show that you’ve put thought into the day. For a personal touch, I sometimes create a small photo spot with fall décor so friends and family can capture memories.

Keep the Energy Up with Entertainment

Beyond food, what keeps guests smiling is a fun, easygoing atmosphere. I like to set up light entertainment—football on TV, a trivia game, or even a gratitude jar where everyone writes what they’re thankful for. Music also plays a big role in setting the tone; a playlist of relaxed, feel-good songs can keep the vibe festive without overpowering conversation.

Reflect and Give Thanks

At the heart of Thanksgiving is gratitude. I always take a few minutes during the day to reflect on the people and opportunities I’m thankful for. As someone who spends much of the year focused on business and real estate, this holiday reminds me to pause and appreciate the simple joys—good food, laughter, and time with loved ones.

Thanksgiving doesn’t have to be perfect to be special. With a few must-haves and a focus on togetherness, you can host a celebration that everyone will remember.

Wishing you a wonderful and gratitude-filled holiday season.

Michael Gortenburg, Founding Principal of Eighteen Capital Group (18CG) in Kansas City, Missouri.

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Memorial Day Weekend in Kansas City

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Hi everyone! It’s Michael Gortenburg here.

Memorial Day Weekend is one of my favorite times to be in Kansas City. It’s the unofficial start of summer, and the city comes alive with events that honor our heroes, bring the community together, and offer plenty of fun for all ages. Whether you’re looking to reflect, celebrate, or just enjoy some quality time outdoors, here are my top picks for making the most of Memorial Day Weekend in KC:

Celebration at the Station
This signature Kansas City event is back and better than ever in 2025! Held outside Union Station, the evening features a free concert from the Kansas City Symphony, followed by a spectacular fireworks display. It’s truly a bucket-list event for local families. Arrive early with lawn chairs or picnic blankets and enjoy pre-show activities, food vendors, and a festive atmosphere.

National WWI Museum and Memorial
The National WWI Museum hosts a powerful Memorial Day event on the lawn overlooking the city each year. Expect a flyover, patriotic music, speeches from veterans and community leaders, and a wreath-laying ceremony that’s both somber and inspiring. This event is free and open to the public, and it’s one of the most moving ways to begin the holiday weekend. Bring a blanket and arrive early for good seating.

Dinosaurs Around the World at the Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium
For families looking for fun, the Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium is hosting the “Dinosaurs Around the World: The Great Outdoors” exhibit throughout the weekend. It’s a great way to combine education and entertainment for the kids.

Painted Garden at Powell Gardens
Experience the beauty of spring at Powell Gardens with their “Painted Garden” event. It’s a perfect spot for a leisurely stroll among vibrant floral displays.

Oceans of Fun Season Opening
Kick off the summer with a splash! Oceans of Fun, the largest outdoor water park in the Midwest, opens its season on May 24. It’s a fantastic way to cool down and have some fun in the sun.

Kansas City truly shines during Memorial Day Weekend, offering a mix of solemn remembrance and joyful celebration. Whether you’re attending a ceremony, enjoying live music, or exploring local attractions, there’s something for everyone to appreciate and enjoy.

What are your favorite ways to spend Memorial Day Weekend in KC? Share your traditions or new discoveries in the comments or connect with me on social media. I’d love to hear how you honor and celebrate this meaningful holiday.

For more fun, check out my blog about My Favorite Sports Bars in Kansas City!

Michael Gortenburg, Founding Principal of Eighteen Capital Group (18CG) in Kansas City, Missouri.

Also, follow Michael on Medium, Twitter, and Xing.

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Top Local Shops for Mother’s Day Gifts in Kansas City

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Hi everyone! Michael Gortenburg here.  Mother’s Day is just around the corner on May 11th, and finding the perfect gift to show appreciation for the special moms in your life doesn’t have to mean resorting to big-box retailers or last-minute online shopping. Kansas City is home to some of the best local boutiques, artisan shops, and specialty stores where you can find unique and thoughtful gifts that will make this Mother’s Day extra special.

From handmade jewelry to decadent chocolates, here are some of the best local shops in Kansas City to find the perfect Mother’s Day gift.

1. Made in KC

Multiple Locations (Plaza, Downtown, Prairie Village)

If your mom loves locally made gifts, Made in KC is the perfect place to shop. This store features a curated selection of Kansas City-themed goods, from handcrafted jewelry to home décor and artisanal foods. Pick up a locally designed mug, a bottle of KC-roasted coffee, or a cozy candle with scents inspired by the Midwest. Bonus: they even have a café where you can grab a latte while you browse!

Gift Ideas: KC-themed home goods, artisan candles, locally crafted jewelry

2. The General Store & Co.

207 Westport Rd, Kansas City, MO

For the mom who loves stylish home décor, unique stationery, or self-care goodies, The General Store & Co. in Westport is a must-visit. They carry an eclectic mix of handmade bath products, beautiful kitchen accessories, and quirky gifts that will make her smile. They also have gorgeous greeting cards that will pair perfectly with your thoughtful gift.

Gift Ideas: Hand-poured candles, skincare products, Kansas City-inspired artwork

3. Messner Bee Farm

8301 Westridge Rd, Raytown, MO

If your mom appreciates natural, eco-friendly gifts, Messner Bee Farm has just what you need. This local shop specializes in handcrafted beeswax-based beauty products, including lip balms, body butter, and soaps—all made with love and local honey. Their products are beautifully packaged and perfect for pampering the queen bee in your life.

Gift Ideas: Handmade lip balms, honey gift sets, all-natural skincare

4. Hand & Land

115 NW Barry Rd, Kansas City, MO

Self-care is always a great gift, and Hand & Land offers a wonderful selection of organic beauty products, wellness essentials, and sustainable home goods. Their focus on all-natural and eco-conscious products makes this an ideal shop for health-conscious moms who love clean beauty and wellness products.

Gift Ideas: Herbal teas, natural skincare products, essential oil gift sets

5. Kansas City Candle Company

4101 Walnut St, Kansas City, MO

If your mom loves candles, Kansas City Candle Company is the place to shop. Their locally made soy candles come in a variety of luxurious scents inspired by Kansas City and the Midwest. Whether she prefers fresh floral scents, warm vanilla tones, or earthy woods, you’ll find the perfect fragrance to brighten her day.

Gift Ideas: Hand-poured soy candles, wax melts, reed diffusers

6. Christopher Elbow Chocolates

1819 McGee St, Kansas City, MO

For the mom with a sweet tooth, Christopher Elbow Chocolates is a must-stop shop. Their gourmet chocolates are as beautiful as they are delicious, featuring artistic designs and unique flavor combinations like Venezuelan Dark Chocolate and Raspberry Balsamic. A beautifully wrapped box of these handcrafted chocolates will make her feel extra special.

Gift Ideas: Luxury chocolate boxes, hot cocoa mix, chocolate-covered nuts

7. Do Good Co.

1320 W 39th St, Kansas City, MO

If your mom loves shopping with a purpose, Do Good Co. is a fantastic option. This stylish boutique offers a mix of vintage finds, modern fashion, and home goods, with proceeds supporting local nonprofits. Every purchase gives back, making it a meaningful gift choice.

Gift Ideas: Vintage jewelry, stylish handbags, home décor

8. Nell Hill’s

4101 N Mulberry Dr, North Kansas City, MO

For the mom who loves interior decorating, Nell Hill’s is a dream come true. This upscale home décor store is filled with elegant furniture, tableware, and seasonal decorations that will make her home feel extra special. Whether she loves classic, modern, or rustic designs, there’s something here for every décor style.

Gift Ideas: Decorative throw pillows, tableware, floral arrangements

9. J’adore Home and Garden

4531 W 119th St, Leawood, KS

For moms with a green thumb, J’adore Home and Garden offers a stunning selection of indoor plants, stylish planters, and gardening accessories. Whether she loves succulents, orchids, or fresh floral arrangements, this shop has something that will brighten up her space.

Gift Ideas: Beautiful potted plants, gardening tools, decorative planters

10. Fetch

1101 Mulberry St, Kansas City, MO

If your mom enjoys quirky, fun gifts, Fetch is the place to go. This locally loved shop carries a mix of witty greeting cards, pop culture gifts, and unique home goods that make for a lighthearted yet thoughtful present. Whether she’s a fan of funny mugs, cozy socks, or unique art prints, Fetch has a gift that will make her smile.

Gift Ideas: Funny mugs, cheeky tea towels, quirky greeting cards

Shop Local, Celebrate Mom

Kansas City is filled with amazing local businesses that make finding the perfect Mother’s Day gift easy and enjoyable. Whether your mom loves sweet treats, cozy candles, stylish home décor, or unique handmade items, these shops offer plenty of thoughtful, one-of-a-kind gifts to make her feel loved.

Shopping local doesn’t just mean getting a great gift—it also means supporting small businesses and keeping Kansas City’s creative community thriving. So, skip the big-box stores this year and find something truly special for Mom right here in KC!

Check out my blog about the best bookstores in Kansas City, especially if your mom loves to read!

Michael Gortenburg, Founding Principal of Eighteen Capital Group (18CG) in Kansas City, Missouri.

Also, follow Michael on Medium, Twitter, and Xing.

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Best Items for the Summer

Hi everyone! It’s Michael Gortenburg here.

It’s finally summer, and if it’s anything like the past few weeks, the heat will continue to be scorching. The high temperatures can stop you from enjoying the outdoors, but there are plenty of ways to beat the heat and make the most of your summer. I want to share some of the best items for summer that will keep you cool while you soak in the sunshine.

Portable Fan

Unless you’re planted on a beach, you may lack a breeze to help break the heat. A small, portable fan can bring the breeze to you and keep you cool wherever you are. I like to have it on hand when I know I’ll be sitting in the same spot outside for a long time. An outdoor concert or show becomes all the more tolerable in the heat when you’ve got this in your back pocket.

Compact Speaker

Whether you’re spending time soaking up the sun in the yard or hosting a barbecue for the neighborhood, a speaker is sure to liven things up. I recommend a more compact model so you can bring it with you on any trips to the park or beach. 

Reusable Water Bottle

Dehydration is no joke, and if you plan to spend any time in the sun, you should plan to stay hydrated. A reusable water bottle you can bring on the go will make it easy to drink and refill on your journey.

A Sun Hat

The best way to protect yourself from the sun is coverage. Any kind of hat, whether it’s a baseball cap to support your favorite team or a wide-brimmed hat, will protect your scalp and face from burning and help keep you cool while you’re outside. These seasonal hats come with all sorts of brim sizes, so you can pick how much coverage you want.

Picnic Blanket

If you’re anything like me, you love spending time outdoors during summertime. But sometimes places to sit, especially parks on a busy day, can be hard to come by. I suggest keeping a picnic blanket on hand for any park, beach, or concert outings. I prefer ones with an easy-to-clean, waterproof underside, so I don’t have to worry about any mess.

Summer is a beautiful season with plenty of great outdoor activities to explore, but higher temperatures can sometimes interrupt plans. I hope some of these items will help you beat the heat and enjoy your summer!

If you’d like to see some other seasonal travel tips from me, check out my blog here.

Michael Gortenburg, Founding Principal of Eighteen Capital Group (18CG) in Kansas City, Missouri.

Also, follow Michael on Medium, Twitter, and Xing.