Hi everyone, it’s Michael Gortenburg.
As the leaves turn and the air cools, Thanksgiving becomes the perfect time to slow down and connect with family, friends, and community. I’ve always believed the best gatherings aren’t about perfection, but about creating warm memories. Over the years, I’ve picked up a few hosting essentials that make Thanksgiving both enjoyable and stress-free, whether you’re throwing a big dinner or a small get-together.
Create a Warm, Inviting Atmosphere
A Thanksgiving party starts with the right setting. I like to focus on simple, cozy touches—autumn colors, candles, and natural décor like pumpkins or pinecones. Layering in soft lighting and background music helps everyone feel at home. If you have the space, open up your patio or balcony for after-dinner relaxation. Kansas City’s fall evenings can be crisp but beautiful, and a fire pit or heater can make outdoor moments memorable.
Plan a Menu Everyone Will Love
The Thanksgiving table is where the magic happens. Classic dishes like roasted turkey, mashed potatoes, and stuffing are always favorites, but I enjoy experimenting with a new side dish or dessert each year. The key is balance—some homemade staples mixed with easy-to-prep items will save time and stress. For dessert, pumpkin pie is timeless, but pecan pie or apple crisp always make great additions.
If you’re hosting a large group, I recommend organizing a potluck-style meal. Guests love contributing a signature dish, and it makes everyone feel part of the celebration.
Thoughtful Touches Go a Long Way
Small details make gatherings memorable. Handwritten place cards, a few personalized decorations, or thank-you notes for guests show that you’ve put thought into the day. For a personal touch, I sometimes create a small photo spot with fall décor so friends and family can capture memories.
Keep the Energy Up with Entertainment
Beyond food, what keeps guests smiling is a fun, easygoing atmosphere. I like to set up light entertainment—football on TV, a trivia game, or even a gratitude jar where everyone writes what they’re thankful for. Music also plays a big role in setting the tone; a playlist of relaxed, feel-good songs can keep the vibe festive without overpowering conversation.
Reflect and Give Thanks
At the heart of Thanksgiving is gratitude. I always take a few minutes during the day to reflect on the people and opportunities I’m thankful for. As someone who spends much of the year focused on business and real estate, this holiday reminds me to pause and appreciate the simple joys—good food, laughter, and time with loved ones.
Thanksgiving doesn’t have to be perfect to be special. With a few must-haves and a focus on togetherness, you can host a celebration that everyone will remember.
Wishing you a wonderful and gratitude-filled holiday season.
Michael Gortenburg, Founding Principal of Eighteen Capital Group (18CG) in Kansas City, Missouri.
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